“Nobody has an easy life. It is this face we put on, that we are not all getting rained on… My hope, always, is that it is going to wake me up. I’m only connected for seconds, minutes a day sometimes. And suddenly you go, Holy cow, I’ve been asleep for two days. I’ve been doing things, but I am just out. If I see someone who is out cold on their feet, I’m going to try to wake that person up. It is what I would want someone to do for me. Wake me the hell up and come back to the planet.” — Bill Murray
SELF CONTROL, the exertion of which…
“Ever wonder why certain people are able to resist temptation? A new study indicates their secret is not sheer willpower, but rather consciously avoiding situations that test their self control… studies have found that everyone has finite stores of willpower, which can be exhausted by repeated temptations. So researchers say the wisest way to pursue a goal — such as academic success or weight loss — is to structure your environment to minimize distraction and temptation.” — This Week
SAVE YOUR TREASURE, it is yours to keep still about…
“Above all, remember that no one needs to be privy to your personal treasure map but you. Our wishes for the future, our hopes, our dreams, our aspirations are our truest treasures. Guard yours in the sanctuary of your heart. Keep your personal treasure map in the back of your illustrated discovery journal and look at it often. When you do, give big thanks for the wonderful life you are leading. THE GREATEST SECRET TO LIVING A HAPPY AND FULFILLING LIFE IS THE REALIZATION THAT EVERYTHING IS CREATED IN OUR MINDS BEFORE IT MANIFESTS ITSELF IN THE OUTSIDE WORLD. We must believe it before we see it. You have to know what you are digging for before X can mark the spot.” — Simple Abundance
“THE ARTIST IS A COLLECTOR. Not a hoarder, mind you, there is a difference. Hoarders collect indiscriminately. Artists collect selectively. Artists only collect things they love… I’m a boring guy with a nine-to-five job who lives in a quiet neighborhood with his wife and his dog. That whole romantic image of the creative genius doing drugs and running around and sleeping with everyone is played out. It is for the superhuman and those who want to die young. The thing is, it takes a lot of energy to be creative. You don’t have that energy if you waste it on other stuff… choose what to leave out… Place some restraints on yourself.” — Austin Kleon, Steal Like and Artist
And, my own personal favorite, THERE IS ALWAYS SOMETHING YOU CAN DO.
When beset by pain and problems, or even creative bliss and a swirl of great ideas, simmer down. Break it down, whatever is before you, into small, manageable actions. As Bill Murray says in What About Bob, “BABY STEPS. BABY STEPS”.
And for God’s sake, don’t tell anybody what you are creating in your creation zone, in your creationist world, on your lonely planet. Your planet is population of one for a reason. You need all the solitude and privacy you can get, to dream your dreams and then and then and then AND THEN bring them into reality. Your dreams are surely less likely to walk out in line if you blabber them all over the place.
Dreamer dreaming deep does not need an audience. People knowing your business, what you are working on, what you plan to manifest — tends to murder the art spirit that you need for doing your human work. “When you do your human work, beings seen and unseen will help you” — Natalie Goldberg But not if you release a bunch of hot air about what you are going to do.
The saddest words are “I am going to” and, “I used to”… Mother gave a talk at a Mayflower Society Gathering (proving our Mayflower pedigree for membership in the Mayflower Society was one of my mother’s favorite achievements of her whole life)… but she and daddy never went to the Netherlands to meet the queen — the putative trip was the subject of her talk — because they flew to Toronto instead to pick me up from a Toronto hospital where I was mad as a hattering cuckoo from taking all the colors of the acid rainbow at the Goose Lake Michigan music festival in August of 1970.
If you want to keep your stuff a secret, which increases the energy available to actualize whatever it is, for God’s sake, all you all, don’t broadcast your sweet intentions. Loose lips sink ships. If you haven’t told anybody, anybody at all, what you are up to to, you never have to find yourself snapping at your best friend, “Don’t talk about that!” and then having to apologize and beg for forgiveness.
How easy is this discipline of keeping your keeping your mouth shut? Pretty hard for one who was called “The Sieve” by my mean family — because I did feel, I did see and I did not keep home’s anxious secrets at all well. I like to be transparent, a what you see is what you get person. Boy, that takes a lifetime to achieve. Think new thoughts. Make new karma. Love is all there is. Enjoy your day. Doo dah dippety.